Pity Party Thread...

[missinformation]

May I join in?

The guy I am dating decides to rehash every conversation and every little thing I have done wrong....he also goes on and on about the fact that I am trying to grow out the color of my hair and having white roots. (I am almost 40 and should not have any gray, according to him) He also harps on me because I have not been able to get my teeth fixed...kinda costs alot of money, which I don't have.

Worst thing was on Tuesday. He actually called my family "White Trash". He was all apologetic last night, but I cannot and will not forgive him for that....accck

[LORITHECHICK]

You've got my pity Ibeapoet (sorry I have to refer to screen names here) Nothing worse than having that kind of a day...Poor you! I feel bad for ya...so lot's of pity coming your way...tons in fact...

[LORITHECHICK]

Oh and Missinformation...you already know what's best for THAT relationship SOOOOO you do the right thing...
I'm giving you 2 pity points...1 for trying and 2 for letting yourself listen to his crap... He's not worth any more pity points

[mom363546]

Originally Posted by we3kings

Oh goodie, I love parties. My life has just about taken a few swirls down the porcelain goddess, a couple of times this year. Count me in.

LOL! This really tickled me! thanks for the laugh!

[mspete]

missinformation - sounds like the best thing you can do for yourself is boot this guy out of your life! You deserve better.

[Cpogie]

Originally Posted by ibeapoet

Pity party here today! Just when I think things are turning around in my marriage here comes another curve ball. I hate women who have nothing better to do than try to break up a marriage. She doesn't even know me, doesn't know the situation and she's encouraging him to throw 10 years of our life away. Saying that i'm selfish, childish and only care about my feelings. If I was so selfish I'd left when he first started getting depressed, not that he'll admit it. After all i went through the miscarriage by myself, all he had to say was I needed to "get over it". What does she know about anything? Absoutely freaking nothing, she's just after my husband. I'm just about ready to say she can have him.
ON the positive side, due to stress we've lost 21lbs!

Amanda, I am giving you all my pity points for the week! Big hugs to you. I cannot tell you what I would do to him, but it would not be a pretty sight....

Originally Posted by missinformation

May I join in?

The guy I am dating decides to rehash every conversation and every little thing I have done wrong....he also goes on and on about the fact that I am trying to grow out the color of my hair and having white roots. (I am almost 40 and should not have any gray, according to him) He also harps on me because I have not been able to get my teeth fixed...kinda costs alot of money, which I don't have.

Worst thing was on Tuesday. He actually called my family "White Trash". He was all apologetic last night, but I cannot and will not forgive him for that....accck

Missy, I have given away all my pity points this week. SO my best advice would be to give this jerk the heave hoe....and a good kick where the sun don't shine.

[PURPLECOLA]

ok so far so good but i gotta say... for me, coming here n whining to you girls the way i tend to do is very therapeutic! seriously! cuz i write it all out, get it out of my heart, and can then see the light to move on! so thank you... seriously. having a pity party for ourselves doesn't mean we don't see the bright side... in fact, i concentrate every day on my blessings. but sometimes things just get ya down and ya gotta let it loose.

[ibeapoet]

Amy's right it's very therapuetic!!! write it down and let it ouT!!! haha! good one amy! It's very bright on ss and full of wonderful special people!!! ya'll rock!

[Texmel]

Originally Posted by ibeapoet

Pity party here today! Just when I think things are turning around in my marriage here comes another curve ball. I hate women who have nothing better to do than try to break up a marriage. She doesn't even know me, doesn't know the situation and she's encouraging him to throw 10 years of our life away. Saying that i'm selfish, childish and only care about my feelings. If I was so selfish I'd left when he first started getting depressed, not that he'll admit it. After all i went through the miscarriage by myself, all he had to say was I needed to "get over it". What does she know about anything? Absoutely freaking nothing, she's just after my husband. I'm just about ready to say she can have him.
ON the positive side, due to stress we've lost 21lbs!

Amanda, you are a ROCK STAR! You keep your chin up---we think you are awesome!

[Texmel]

Originally Posted by missinformation

May I join in?

The guy I am dating decides to rehash every conversation and every little thing I have done wrong....he also goes on and on about the fact that I am trying to grow out the color of my hair and having white roots. (I am almost 40 and should not have any gray, according to him) He also harps on me because I have not been able to get my teeth fixed...kinda costs alot of money, which I don't have.

Worst thing was on Tuesday. He actually called my family "White Trash". He was all apologetic last night, but I cannot and will not forgive him for that....accck

You are a blessing and you are loved! He needs to GET A BIG CLUE!!