View Full Version : My new grandbaby was born premature
whisper5000
04-21-2011, 02:17 PM
Please say a prayer for my new grandbaby she was born last night about a month premature, she had the umbilical cord wrapped around her neck and has been having trouble breathing, her face looks all bruised and she cant eat so they are feeding her through iv. They are sending her down to the childrens hospital sometime today. My son and his girlfriend are very upset and having a hard time I told them to try not to stress it is really affecting them. I know how hard it is for them but I am not sure they can come through this together if something happens, they also hav a 1 year old and he don't need to feel that kind of stress either. But, I am praying for them and I know a lot of people will. I always say prayers for people whn they need it. Thanks everyone.
I just want to say thank you all for everything. I have a very important update. This morning my grandbaby ciara was given her wings from god and went to be with him. She will be loved forever and missed deeply, we just thank god he gave us this little bit of time to see her. I could use some extra prayers for my son and daughter in law though they are really having a hard time with this. I might not be back on here for a few days but know my heart and prayers are always with all of you. Thanks again
ibeapoet
04-21-2011, 02:29 PM
Sending up prayers. It's a hard thing to go through. Hugs and keep us updated.
bvanpeltsw
04-21-2011, 02:39 PM
I wanted to say that I am sorry to hear your grandbaby was premature. I run a program for the March of Dimes called NICU Family Support. I would be more than happy to mail some informational materials to them to maybe put their mind at ease as much as possible. The materials include a baby journal, NICU Guide and Glossary, Parenting in the NICU and other family centered care information.
Please send me their mailing address in a PM(if it is okay with them) and I will get them information ASAP. I think they really use something to give them information and an understanding of the NICU.
Hugs to you!
Brandy
whisper5000
04-21-2011, 03:08 PM
I wanted to say that I am sorry to hear your grandbaby was premature. I run a program for the March of Dimes called NICU Family Support. I would be more than happy to mail some informational materials to them to maybe put their mind at ease as much as possible. The materials include a baby journal, NICU Guide and Glossary, Parenting in the NICU and other family centered care information.
Please send me their mailing address in a PM(if it is okay with them) and I will get them information ASAP. I think they really use something to give them information and an understanding of the NICU.
Hugs to you!
Brandy
Thank you very much any info would begreatly appreciated.
I pm'd u
god bless
Cpogie
04-21-2011, 03:22 PM
I will keep the baby and family in my prayers. My neice was born premature, and weighed just 1 pound 9 ounces. Today she is a healthy 8 year old. Stay positive. HUGS to you all.
AzuAngel
04-21-2011, 03:54 PM
Prayers for the family.
Keep strong and stay positive.
bvanpeltsw
04-21-2011, 04:17 PM
Thank you very much any info would begreatly appreciated.
I pm'd u
god bless
I pm'ed you back and I am putting a package in the mail for you today.
bugspost
04-21-2011, 05:45 PM
Prayers to the entire family..............My 1st grandson, Benjamin was born 6 weeks premature.........he also had to be fed w/IV for short while. It was hard on the family as it was the 1st child for my son & DIL..........it was depressing when Jessica went home & had to leave her baby at hospital.
As hard as it was,,,,,,,,,,,,,,now, almost 6 years later...........it truly was a blessing as it strengthened the bonds between the entire family........I have 2 more beautiful grandbabies.......none premature.....
My only advice is just be willing to listen..........hug & yes, even cry w/them if they need that........remember 3 things that are true about people in general:
They want to know you are listening
They want to know they are being heard
& they want to know that it matters what they said & what you heard!!
Embrace this time to come together as family.............hugs & prayers to you & your family. And though, it might not help to hear this right now..........but God never gives us more than we can handle.
Blessings to you!
we3kings
04-22-2011, 10:37 AM
Please say a prayer for my new grandbaby she was born last night about a month premature, she had the umbilical cord wrapped around her neck and has been having trouble breathing, her face looks all bruised and she cant eat so they are feeding her through iv. They are sending her down to the childrens hospital sometime today. My son and his girlfriend are very upset and having a hard time I told them to try not to stress it is really affecting them. I know how hard it is for them but I am not sure they can come through this together if something happens, they also hav a 1 year old and he don't need to feel that kind of stress either. But, I am praying for them and I know a lot of people will. I always say prayers for people whn they need it. Thanks everyone.
I have said a prayer for your grand daughter. My own daughter was born 6 weeks premature and I know how worrisome it is at first. She also had a few difficulties eating and had to be fed through an IV for about 3 weeks. Once they get her eating on her own, hopefully things will go much more smoothly. Your kids reaction to this is perfectly normal. Just be there to listen to them, and we will be here to listen to you. Hugs to you grandma, and congratulations. :)
Thoughts and prayers are with you and your family.
PURPLECOLA
04-22-2011, 12:31 PM
maybe a rough beginning for her will mean that all difficulties in life will be put behind her right away. i know this is a scary situation, and your family must be terribly upset and worried... but through prayer and love, miracles can come. prayers and loving thoughts for your family and new baby.
whisper5000
04-22-2011, 01:48 PM
Thought I would update,
Yesterday before they sent the baby down to the childrens hospital they took some pictures of her for the family and also my son and girlfriend decided to have the chaplin come in and bless her, I think it comforted them so much because it was like a peace filled ther hearts and my son told me " I know I was really upset last night but now I fee 100 % positive that she is going to be ok" I told him thats the power of prayer. God will look after her no matter what happens. The doctor told them this morning that she is sleeping soundly and they are going to try again later today to try to feed her, he also said she will probably only bein there about a week or so. Thank you everyone for all your prayers. I feel truely blessed for ever finding this site and being a part of it. I consider all on here my true friends.
Also if anyone wants to see a pic of her u can go to http://www.carepages.com/carepages/ciaramae42011
whisper5000
04-23-2011, 02:38 PM
I wanted to say that I am sorry to hear your grandbaby was premature. I run a program for the March of Dimes called NICU Family Support. I would be more than happy to mail some informational materials to them to maybe put their mind at ease as much as possible. The materials include a baby journal, NICU Guide and Glossary, Parenting in the NICU and other family centered care information.
Please send me their mailing address in a PM(if it is okay with them) and I will get them information ASAP. I think they really use something to give them information and an understanding of the NICU.
Hugs to you!
Brandy
Thank you so very much,
I recieved the package today and will give it to them when they get back up here. they are with the baby now, she is doing so much better. She is now eating and breathing at the same time they have a iv in her head but are getting ready to take it out. The doctor said it will probably be about a week before she can come home so they can make sure everything goes ok. thanks to everyone for the prayers. Thank you again brandy your a true angel.
wicked1
04-23-2011, 02:57 PM
Praying for the baby and families.
By the way, Ciara is beautiful! ♥
bvanpeltsw
04-26-2011, 02:48 PM
Thank you so very much,
I recieved the package today and will give it to them when they get back up here. they are with the baby now, she is doing so much better. She is now eating and breathing at the same time they have a iv in her head but are getting ready to take it out. The doctor said it will probably be about a week before she can come home so they can make sure everything goes ok. thanks to everyone for the prayers. Thank you again brandy your a true angel.
Ciara is beautiful! Happy to hear that she has improved. She will be home before you know it!
Cpogie
04-26-2011, 03:01 PM
Ciara is a cutie! I hope she can go home asap.
SSIAnkie
04-26-2011, 06:14 PM
Praying for baby Ciara and your family. How beautiful!
whisper5000
04-27-2011, 03:46 PM
Ciara came home last night, she is doing great. Thanks to all fo the wonderful houghts and prayers. My son is really nervous with her being so small but they will be ok and she is doing so good now. Thank you all again.
bugspost
04-27-2011, 03:55 PM
Ciara came home last night, she is doing great. Thanks to all fo the wonderful houghts and prayers. My son is really nervous with her being so small but they will be ok and she is doing so good now. Thank you all again.
so happy....baby is home!!! how much does she weigh now?? Happy Happy day for you & your family!! :):)
whisper5000
05-05-2011, 02:32 PM
I updated at the beginning of this post. Thank you all
Cpogie
05-05-2011, 02:36 PM
I am so sorry. My thoughts and prayers go out to you and your family.
bvanpeltsw
05-05-2011, 04:47 PM
I just want to say thank you all for everything. I have a very important update. This morning my grandbaby ciara was given her wings from god and went to be with him. She will be loved forever and missed deeply, we just thank god he gave us this little bit of time to see her. I could use some extra prayers for my son and daughter in law though they are really having a hard time with this. I might not be back on here for a few days but know my heart and prayers are always with all of you. Thanks again
I am so sorry. I am glad that your family had the chance to spend time with her. Thinking of you.
SSIAnkie
05-05-2011, 04:59 PM
My thoughts and prayers are with you and your family. I'm so sorry for your loss.
bigmumma41
05-05-2011, 07:29 PM
I am so sorry for your loss my prayers are with you and your family
bugspost
05-06-2011, 01:00 AM
My prayers are with you & your family. GOD needed an angel to watch over you & that is Ciara.........I pray for healing & strength for you all.
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mspete
05-06-2011, 01:57 AM
So sorry for your loss. God bless.
we3kings
05-06-2011, 09:46 AM
I just want to say thank you all for everything. I have a very important update. This morning my grandbaby ciara was given her wings from god and went to be with him. She will be loved forever and missed deeply, we just thank god he gave us this little bit of time to see her. I could use some extra prayers for my son and daughter in law though they are really having a hard time with this. I might not be back on here for a few days but know my heart and prayers are always with all of you. Thanks again
I am so very sorry for your loss. Prayers are said for your whole family.
So sorry for your loss. My sympathies to you and your family. God Bless You.
LORITHECHICK
05-06-2011, 04:41 PM
Sooooooo sorry for your loss...sending up prayers for you and your family...
ibeapoet
05-07-2011, 10:31 AM
My prayers are with you and your family. May God give you peace.
wicked1
05-07-2011, 09:09 PM
I'm so sorry. My heart aches for you and your son and daughter in law. Ciara definitely is an Angel. I'm praying you find peace and comfort knowing she is with God.
Texmel
05-09-2011, 10:38 PM
I'm so sorry. My heart aches for you and your son and daughter in law. Ciara definitely is an Angel. I'm praying you find peace and comfort knowing she is with God.
I agree completely. May God comfort you all and may His arms hold you close.
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