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asumom
10-21-2008, 04:03 PM
we are taking a major beating financially , one because I don't work and for another it has just gotten tough, My husband is looking for another job, the one he has he is at the top and can't go any futher and that kinda sucks because the pay won't increase either.
As some of you know i have had some problems with my back and legs, well its better, but i really need to see a dr but we don't have any kind of medical and they want money when you go in at the drs office, They really don't want to work with you either.
I am feeling so down I don't know how to pick myself up.
i sit and cry over this and think thats not doing any good, but I am mentally and physically hurting,I feel so stressed, DH says it will be alright somehow we will get through it.
we are fixing to celebrate being married 25 yrs on friday and no money to do anything, I told him we can just go to the park or something without the kids, I just don't want to stay home. This man is a wonderful person and I love him with all my heart.
All I am asking is for your prayers to get through this and for hubby a new job. and maybe me something small to do Thanks again.

Cpogie
10-21-2008, 05:10 PM
You will get through this, have faith dear. You know the best gift you can give each other is time together, that is something you will remember. A day at the park can be a lot of fun for the both of you even if it is sitting on a park bench together and it will not cost anything. You can bring a small lunch or snacks. Hang in there, things will get better. HUGS and prayers.

twowhit
10-22-2008, 04:21 AM
I'm so sorry you're having such a tough time right now! I'm saying prayers for your physical health, & glad it's improving a little. If you have a Community Services office where you live, they could probably give you some resources for help with medical aid. Or try your local Salvation Army, or some place like that... I know ours has a list of where to refer people for all kinds of things, & they might know a local organization that would help in your situation.
Lots of people are in a tough financial situation right now... I hope your husband finds another job. It can be a real challenge to keep the bills paid & the kids fed. It's no wonder you're feeling stressed & depressed. I'll be praying you find the strength you need, & that God will lift you up & ease your depression. Sometimes I think it's good to not have much money because it makes us see what's really important... like a gift or dinner at a nice restaurant doesn't express your love & appreciation for each other any more than a walk in the park. My husband & I have never given gifts for any occassion, because we feel that the love we share is our gift to each other, & more important than any "thing". On our 25th anniversary we sat by the fire & talked about all the joys we've shared over the years... didn't cost a thing. So go someplace that has a happy memory for you, & talk about your life & love & how special you are to each other.... it'll be the best anniversay you've ever had.
Keep praying at all times, & try to keep a smile. Things will get better. Lots of hugs to you ((( )))
pj

momsangel
10-26-2008, 06:28 PM
I am sorry to hear about all your worries and concerns. Hopefully in time things will improve for you and things will get better..
I'm sure the two of you can find something special to do on your anniversary without the monies;)
Hugs to you for everything to get better!

SSIAnkie
10-26-2008, 07:00 PM
Terri, I hope you and your DH had a fun, worry free anniversary! Things will get better with time. I hope you are feeling better soon! Hugs to you! ~Kim