My Grandma

[Motherofthree]

My Grandmother is passing away from a hemorraghic (sp) stroke and thats why I have not posted much on here. I hope that you are all doing well and having good freebie days!!! Please keep us in your prayers.

Allison:(

[VanillaBean]

You are definitely in my thoughts and prayers!!!

[wbarker]

Wow Allison! You have been through a lot lately! You and your family are in my thoughts and prayers too. We are here for you!

Wendi

[Cpogie]

Oh dear that is so sad, we are here for you, I will pray for your family, and grandma.

[momsangel]

Sorry to hear this,Allison.Your family is in my thoughts&prayers

[mom2fussbudgets]

I talked to Dawn on the phone yesterday and mentioned I hadn't seen you around much lately! I'm so sorry there's a sad reason for it. :(

My thoughts are with you and your family! Hugs!

[mood4amelody]

I'll keep you in my prayers, and will ask for comfort and for strength for you.

[mkrebecca]

Hi Allison, you know I will be praying for you and your family!!!

[bugspost]

Sending prayers and loving thoughts to you and your family!!

[bvanpeltsw]

Sorry about your Grandma Allison! Your family is in my thoughts.

[rebate queen]

How are you holding up Allison? Sorry, I missed you the other day:o
Thinking of you often....;)

[Cpogie]

Allison hasn't been on since the 2nd, maybe she is spending time with her grandma, hopefully we will have an update soon, in the mean time we will keep praying for your grandmother hun!! <<HUGS>>

[AzuAngel]

Thinking of you often....;)

same here! your family is in my prayers Allison... Hopefully you can come by soon and tell us how you are as we are all worried about you and your grandma.

[lizmolik]

Allison, I am so sorry to hear that, I hope that everything is going alright! I will keep your grandmother and you and your family in my prayers! So sorry! ((HUGS))!

[caryn]

We will continue to pray for you and your Grandmother Allison! HUGS

[Motherofthree]

Okay guys....very LONG story short. My father found my grandmother on the floor in her house last Monday night. She was lifeflighted to UH (hospital in Cleveland, Ohio). She was in a coma(in the hospital) for about three days and would not wake up. We would shake her and scream her name and nothing.. My Grandmother has woken a bit up... she cant speak....she is on a ventilator and feeding tube since Last Monday.. She has since came down with pnemonia(sp)...Family has been fighting about what should happen since she has advance directives...she wants nothing artificial..My family has come to the aggrement to give her the PEG tube tommorrow in surgery and also a tracheostomy because she is not fully breathing on her own...sometimes she does and sometimes she gasps for air.. I have been with her at the hospital for over a week now and she has made much progress. The doctors told us to pull the plug but my father and his brothers were very persistant about how miracles can happen....I am sorry guys there is much more to this story I just cant explain it in writing...Prayers do work..and keep praying...Miss you all..and By the way, keep your family close!! (((HUGS))) Allison

[Motherofthree]

How are you holding up Allison? Sorry, I missed you the other day:o
Thinking of you often....;)


Its okay Dawn..I figured you were busy with the kiddos..I just wanted to talk about my Grandma. Ya know..:o

[Cpogie]

Thanks for the update Allison. I will be praying for your grandmother and your family, I am glad you have been with your grandma this past week, and I am sure she knows you are there with her.

[Motherofthree]

I'm crying again...but let me tell you something..I was talking to her yesterday, and I asked about the ring she was wearing.....I knew where she got it and I was just trying to see if she would understand my question. Well I said "Grandma did you get that ring thats on your right hand from Renee" She nodded her head!!!!!! Then I started to cry and she opened her eyes again and a tear fell down her face.. You have to understand that my Grandmother is paralized on her right side...very sad, and she still "knows" and "hears" whats going on.. :o

[mood4amelody]

I'm crying again...but let me tell you something..I was talking to her yesterday, and I asked about the ring she was wearing.....I knew where she got it and I was just trying to see if she would understand my question. Well I said "Grandma did you get that ring thats on your right hand from Renee" She nodded her head!!!!!! Then I started to cry and she opened her eyes again and a tear fell down her face.. You have to understand that my Grandmother is paralized on her right side...very sad, and she still "knows" and "hears" whats going on.. :o

I think that she's sad because she knows how much her ailing hurts you, and not because of the ailing itself. What a strong love she has for you. :o I just know that she is so glad to have you there with her right now! We miss you here, but you are being a great and wonderful grandaughter. We are all hurting for you, but we are also proud of you, too.

[Motherofthree]

I think that she's sad because she knows how much her ailing hurts you, and not because of the ailing itself. What a strong love she has for you. :o I just know that she is so glad to have you there with her right now! We miss you here, but you are being a great and wonderful grandaughter. We are all hurting for you, but we are also proud of you, too.

Lynne...Thank you for those uplifting words....words of encouragement, and peace. I just hope she knows I am there..I have missed so much school...but honestly I really dont care because family comes 1st!!!

[mood4amelody]

Lynne...Thank you for those uplifting words....words of encouragement, and peace. I just hope she knows I am there..I have missed so much school...but honestly I really dont care because family comes 1st!!!

You're absolutely right not to worry about school. When my mom was going with cancer, I worked for MetLife. One of my coworkers said something to me about not being at the office enough, and I said, "That's my MOM." When you look back later, you wouldn't trade a minute with your grandma for any class! Are your instructors working with you on this? If they aren't they should be, and if you want, I'll call the dean for you personally and have him give the instructors "what for"! ;)

[Motherofthree]

You're absolutely right not to worry about school. When my mom was going with cancer, I worked for MetLife. One of my coworkers said something to me about not being at the office enough, and I said, "That's my MOM." When you look back later, you wouldn't trade a minute with your grandma for any class! Are your instructors working with you on this? If they aren't they should be, and if you want, I'll call the dean for you personally and have him give the instructors "what for"! ;)

They all know..I have 2 men instructors and 2 women instructors...My classes with the women are VERY, I mean VERY supportive.. The men, well what can I say, they are men lol...They are not as "sensitive" as my women instructors..But to say the least I am not having any problems..so far..Lynne what type of cancer did your Mom have or has. If you dont mind me asking?

[mood4amelody]

They all know..I have 2 men instructors and 2 women instructors...My classes with the women are VERY, I mean VERY supportive.. The men, well what can I say, they are men lol...They are not as "sensitive" as my women instructors..But to say the least I am not having any problems..so far..Lynne what type of cancer did your Mom have or has. If you dont mind me asking?

It was liver cancer at the end. About 4 years before that she'd had breast cancer. It was back in 1990 when she passed away. She was 54. She was a very awesome woman. :) I still miss her a lot. I'll leave you alone so you can catch up on your samples!! Your mailbox probably needs some good cheer, too!! :D

[Motherofthree]

Lynne I sent you a pm..:o

[mood4amelody]

Lynne I sent you a pm..:o

I sent you one back! lol :p

[Motherofthree]

We will continue to pray for you and your Grandmother Allison! HUGS

Thanks so much for your kind words...((hugs))

[mom2fussbudgets]

Allison, I am so sorry! Four years ago, I lost my grandma to lung cancer. I was there with her almost every day until the end. It's tough to see someone you love in pain. Big hugs for what you're going through.

[GeorgiaMom]

I am so sorry to hear about this, Allison. I can't even imagine how hard this must be. You're doing the right thing though by putting your grandmother first. There will always be time to get back on track with school, but this may be the last time you get to spend with her while she is still aware of you there....cherish every moment you have with her. My family and I will be praying for you.

[Motherofthree]

Thank you all for your thoughts and prayers..I tried to explain the situation the best way that I could so if you guys are confused, sorry. It's very hard to put it in words. I just hopped on here real quick between classes so I have to go now. Again thank you ALL so very much for the prayers. I'll try to keep you guys posted on whats going on..

[Cpogie]

Allison you have so much going on with your life right now, no explanation is necessary, we understand, keep us posted when you have time, if you need anything we will try and help you out anyway we can, until then you and your family are in my thoughts and prayers, <<Hugs>>

[laf76]

I am sorry for what is going on with your family. I lost my last grandparent (dads mom) when I was 19. I know how you feel. Stay strong for her!

[rebate queen]

Its okay Dawn..I figured you were busy with the kiddos..I just wanted to talk about my Grandma. Ya know..:o
;) You can still call when you need to...sorry I'm busy so much:o it's getting worse too...

[rebate queen]

I truly wish that the forum was always like this...supporting each other with kind words...AND SAMPLES!!! All the other BS that goes on here, well honestly, it has been very disheartening and has kept me away from being here as much as I used to be.....:( ...just my opinion.....

[mood4amelody]

I truly wish that the forum was always like this...supporting each other with kind words...AND SAMPLES!!! All the other BS that goes on here, well honestly, it has been very disheartening and has kept me away from being here as much as I used to be.....:( ...just my opinion.....

I wish life was always like that. :(

[momsangel]

I truly wish that the forum was always like this...supporting each other with kind words...AND SAMPLES!!! All the other BS that goes on here, well honestly, it has been very disheartening and has kept me away from being here as much as I used to be.....:( ...just my opinion.....

I agree,we should all just be nice to each other!Sometimes you guys are better to me than my real family:o

[mkrebecca]

I am wondering about Allison. Have not heard from her in a long time. Anyone know anything? She has been in my thoughts and prayers.

[momsangel]

I was wondering as well, havent seen much of her.Perhaps she just busy with all thats going on in her life.
Pleasant thoughts to you,Allison!WE wiss you!

[mkrebecca]

Allison PM'ed me today, Her whole family is sick and she has been very busy. Her grandma still needs our prayers. She is in a rehab center.

[momsangel]

prayers your way hun,I hope you guys get to feeling better,and grandma as well! Take care

[mood4amelody]

I talked to Allison today and she says her grandma is doing a lot better. She still has the trach tube in but is able to WAVE!! to her nurses, and wear her glasses and dentures (and if she could talk, she'd have been mad about not having the dentrures in!! lol). This is a great improvement so far! Allison asked me to post for her, because she's still pretty emotionally raw, and even though her grandma is better, she is going thru a lot, and she didn't want to cry while she was writing this up. So, I'm passing along many thanks and gratitude from Allison and her family for your continued prayers and well wishes.

Thanks everyone!

[utkd29]

I talked to Allison today and she says her grandma is doing a lot better. She still has the trach tube in but is able to WAVE!! to her nurses, and wear her glasses and dentures (and if she could talk, she'd have been mad about not having the dentrures in!! lol). This is a great improvement so far! Allison asked me to post for her, because she's still pretty emotionally raw, and even though her grandma is better, she is going thru a lot, and she didn't want to cry while she was writing this up. So, I'm passing along many thanks and gratitude from Allison and her family for your continued prayers and well wishes.

Thanks everyone!

This is wonderful news. We are still praying for you dear.

[Cpogie]

Thats wonderful news!!! Allison, you take all the time you need, we are here if you need anything!! I will keep you and your family in my prayers. Hugs!!

[momsangel]

Glad to know things are getting a little better for you

[Motherofthree]

Lynne, I appreciate what you did for me...I just cant/dont want to talk about my Gram......Its really killing me inside... Thanks everyone for everything.

[mood4amelody]

That's okay Allison, anytime you need me I'll be there to help ya out as best as I can. :) I think everyone pretty well understands how you feel, so just know we love ya and are thinking of you and saying prayers for you and all of your family. You don't have to talk about it. You just need to let us do our caring and praying and all, and you go do the things you have to do. We don't need any kind of explanation and you don't have to feel pressured about it. Last thing anyone would want would be to put any more burden on your shoulders at this time. Maybe later. :p HUGS!!!

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[Motherofthree]

Okay...This is very hard for me to do but I can do it.. I saw my Gram today (my father was there with me) and I was telling her that all my internet friends were praying for her and that she was going to get better...She started to cry and get really upset/sad..My father and I said "Mom/Grandma its okay hunny your going to get better and get out of this place". She stopped crying and my father and I started to tell her jokes and old memories that we had made thru the years. (she cant speak) She does answer questions thru nodding and shaking her head. I rubbed lotion on her hands today and I am going back tomorrow to paint her nails.:(

[mood4amelody]

I admire you for being so brave! I know how hard it is on you to talk about it, and you did, so I say you are brave!!! W00t! for you, Sis!! Sounds like Grandma is slowly, but steadily getting better. I know she's a tough lady, and she has what it takes to overcome this, so keep your chin up. I'm here for you! And, I'm not the only one!!!! We love you and are rootin' for Grandma, and for you!

[momsangel]

Okay...This is very hard for me to do but I can do it.. I saw my Gram today (my father was there with me) and I was telling her that all my internet friends were praying for her and that she was going to get better...She started to cry and get really upset/sad..My father and I said "Mom/Grandma its okay hunny your going to get better and get out of this place". She stopped crying and my father and I started to tell her jokes and old memories that we had made thru the years. (she cant speak) She does answer questions thru nodding and shaking her head. I put lotion on her hands today and am going back tomorrow to paint her nails.:(


Allsion,Hun..I'm so glad you shared with us.I pray for your grandma everyday...Its good to share with her everyday,she may not be able to speak,but know your words are helpful and encouraging to her....
I will continue to keep you and your family in my thoughts and prayers...
Big Hugs to you for all you are going through right now, rest a sure things will get better for you! Find comfort in your children,family and friends to help you get through!!
You never know you can and will find support in the places you never thought possible...;) All my best to you!

[mkrebecca]

keep your chin up girl! You know we are here for you and keeping your family in our prayers!

[Cpogie]

Allison, thank you for the update on your grandmother, your posting today really touched me, you and your family are in my prayers, If there is anything I can do, I am here for you.

[Motherofthree]

Allison, thank you for the update on your grandmother, your posting today really touched me, you and your family are in my prayers, If there is anything I can do, I am here for you.

Carol,
I am happy that I could touch somebody!!lol Thanks for the continuous prayers, support, and the numerous offers to help.:)

[Motherofthree]

Need Prayers! My Father Just Called Me To Tell Me Grandma Just Got Transfered To University Hospital. Her Blood Pressure Is 67/50.......pleaseee Pray Hard!!!!!! :(

I am so scared...

[gatito]

Need Prayers! My Father Just Called Me To Tell Me Grandma Just Got Transfered To University Hospital. Her Blood Pressure Is 67/50.......pleaseee Pray Hard!!!!!! :(

I am so scared...

AY ALLISON !! MY HEART IS WITH YOU DEAR !!

[mood4amelody]

Awwww, Sweetie!! HUGS!! I'll try and call you later. I'll be praying for you and Grandma both!! Love you!

[momsangel]

Allison my prayers are with each and everyone of you,Dear!! We are praying for you!

[jen2129]

Okay...This is very hard for me to do but I can do it.. I saw my Gram today (my father was there with me) and I was telling her that all my internet friends were praying for her and that she was going to get better...She started to cry and get really upset/sad..My father and I said "Mom/Grandma its okay hunny your going to get better and get out of this place". She stopped crying and my father and I started to tell her jokes and old memories that we had made thru the years. (she cant speak) She does answer questions thru nodding and shaking her head. I rubbed lotion on her hands today and I am going back tomorrow to paint her nails.:(

Oh I feel for you! A year ago today is when my grandma passed. The last thing I did while she was in hospice was paint her nails! Till this day I miss her terribly. I send you my <<hugs>> and tears as well. Take care and continue to try and smile!

[mkrebecca]

oh-Allison, I am so sorry to here about this, I will be praying for you guys tonight...keep us posted.

[Cpogie]

Allison, please know prayers are being said right now! HUGS!!

[Motherofthree]

Just called the hosptial....Talked to Grandmas ICU nurse..told me she cant tell me to much over the phone about grandma but that she had talked to Eugene. I said "thats my father" (Eugene)!!!! she said to be ready to come see your grandma! I said "what do you mean"????? She said "Talk to your father"!!???????????:eek: :mad: :( :confused: ....

[mood4amelody]

Allison, sweetie, you know I'm thinking about you and saying prayers for both you and Grandma. I'll pray for God to do whatever will be the very best thing for her and for your family. I know this is so very hard on you all. I'm so sorry that you're going thru this. Love you.

[lizmolik]

Allison, My prayers are with you and your family and especially for your grandma!!! ((((HUGS))))!!! If you need to talk I am here! :)

[mom2fussbudgets]

You and your family are in my thoughts as well. Hugs!

[Motherofthree]

Quick update . Just got off the phone with my Dad..They are giving my Grandma a blood transfusion because of something.. not to sure as to why! Dad was really quick with me on the phone!ugghh I dont know what to do? Go up to the hospital or stay at home?? I couldnt go anyways until my mother gets home later cause I have the boys. These are the only details my father gave me, so I really dont know why they are the doing the blood transfusion????:confused:

[Motherofthree]

Forgot to tell you all THANK YOU SO MUCH for everything!:) Please keep praying!!

[mood4amelody]

Just relax as best as you can. You're kind of stuck right where you are til your mom gets home anyway, so just enjoy being with them and keep your mind off things. Smack your dad when you see him, too. Sheesh! Men! :p

Lots of prayers for ya! HUGS!!!

[Motherofthree]

Just relax as best as you can. You're kind of stuck right where you are til your mom gets home anyway, so just enjoy being with them and keep your mind off things. Smack your dad when you see him, too. Sheesh! Men! :p

Lots of prayers for ya! HUGS!!!

Lynne, I dont think my Dad even knows exactly whats going on with the blood transfusion... I called Mom and told her. I dont know if I am going up there or not. My Dad is supposed to call when he finds out more..so anytime he should be calling me with an update...uuuggghhh

[mood4amelody]

Keep us posted and just keep you mind on other stuff til you hear from him. HUGS!!

[Motherofthree]

Keep us posted and just keep you mind on other stuff til you hear from him. HUGS!!

Will TRY my hardest Lynne, cause you know how I am!!! I love you and thank you for all of your support. Last I heard from Dad was that they were prepping her and that her heart rate is 150!! The doctors say its from an infection and thats why she needs the blood? I dont know? He said that its because her red blood cell count is low...blah blah. I keep rambling on... I Will try to keep you guys posted.UUGGHHHH:(

[lizmolik]

Will TRY my hardest Lynne, cause you know how I am!!! I love you and thank you for all of your support. Last I heard from Dad was that they were prepping her and that her heart rate is 150!! The doctors say its from an infection and thats why she needs the blood? I dont know? He said that its because her red blood cell count is low...blah blah. I keep rambling on... I Will try to keep you guys posted.UUGGHHHH:(

Allison, I will continue to pray for her, I am sure that everything will be okay, just take it easy and think positive! We are all here for you! (((HUGS))) :)

[mood4amelody]

Well, that kind of makes sense to me... the white blood cells are the ones that fight off infection, so they have been working overtime on hers and she needs them replenished now. I get it. So maybe getting the transfusion will help her kick butt on the infection now. :o

And, yeah, sweetie, I know you're a little worry bug! HUGS!! It's part of why you are so endearing!